My crush tells me I should talk BIG to the jealous girl who is trying to get to me?

He tells me she has accomplished what she set out to...alienate me...but she hasn't alienated me from him which was her real objective...





How do you talk DOWN to a chick who is egging you on to hate her? He thinks she's got under my skin. I say she hasn't because she doesn't exist anymore! I deleted her from my world!





How can I talk big and not let her under my skin? I'll be damned if she's gonna mess it up between me and him.
My crush tells me I should talk BIG to the jealous girl who is trying to get to me?
IGNORE HER!!! She is obviously a psycho who is egging you on so she can try to bring out something bad in you... In a way she is trying to sabotage your sanity so this guy and possibly everyone else thinks that YOU are the jealous mean girl. Just shrug it off. I have been in many situations like yours. And I just shrugged it off and moved on with my real life. It really impressed people and the only losers were the jealous idiots. I know sometimes you think about what you could have done or said back. But truth is, down the line you'll realize that all that crap was just that girl's way to try and make someone look worse than she does as a way to booste her lost self esteem. She envies SOMETHING about you that is so iresistible, she will stop at nothing to break you of it. Good luck and have a super day, being yourself. Remember, if you have no idea how to even begin talking big to someone, then anger, rage and jealous malice is NOT a part of who you are. Keep it up an leave the hating to the haters... Those feelings are bad for your person and your health... stress and anger ages people prematurely!!! Bye!!!
My crush tells me I should talk BIG to the jealous girl who is trying to get to me?
Ignore her and him, it doesn't seem like he is helping the situation, and is getting a kick out of two girls fighting for him.
Reply:If she doesn't mean anything to you and she no longer exists, you wouldn't be writing a question about it on the Internet. What you are attempting to do is the best thing for you. Continue ignoring it. It's not worth your time and the less you think about it, the better you are. Don't turn out like her sorry ***.....think about it. She's devoted a huge chunk of her life to making you miserable. Do you want to live like that?
Reply:Ignoring people has a very powerful effect. People don't like to be ignored, and being ignored drives them nuts. If the person is trying to upset you, ignoring the insult effectively deflects it, and ultimately upsets the person giving the insult..





Good on you for deleting her from your world. Sounds like she belongs on another planet anyway...
Reply:Always remember the golden rules;





1. Always be classy. You do not talk down, you do not do cat fights, and you do not talk trash. Everyone will respect you more and anyone who tries anything on you will look and feel really trashy and ignorant.





2. Be suave. When responding to anything that calls for "drama", make sure you have a smile on your face and say, "Sorry, I have better use for my time." When responding to your crush, maybe give him him a wink along with that smile.





3. You do not get fazed. At least, not in public. Write about it on a private blog or talk to one of your trusted friends about it. Afterall, you are only human and every human has their limits. When someone is trying to get to your nerves, you show them nothing. This shows that you are confident and too much for them to handle.





Good luck!
Reply:I agree with the guy above. But if you say that she hasn't gotten to you yet then why are you paying so much attention to what she dose. I say let her do whatever just ignore her, even if it is bothering you don't show her that she got to you because then your showing her that she won. So good luck with that!
Reply:ignore her it has a very powerful effect.
Reply:You answered your own question. She doesn't exist to you. That's good and that in itself makes you the bigger person...way to go! If at all possible, block her from having any way to get in contact with you and don't bring her up to anyone...not even your crush. She will get the hint that she can't get through to you anymore and she will go try and bother someone else. (Just continue to be the BIGGER person)